About Me

Have you ever noticed how difficult it is for parents to think about divorce? They’re often torn between what’s best for them and what’s best for their children.

I help parents get clear on whether to divorce or not. Then, whatever their decision, I help them move forward in a way so their children know they’re loved, well cared for and have the best possible chances to grow up to be happy, healthy adults. There’s nothing worse than the pain and regret of a contentious divorce that leaves you feeling like you’ve destroyed your child’s life, when it all could have been done differently.

For your free copy of Parents’ Guide to Divorce with Grace: How to Stop Making the 5 Most Common but Easily Prevented Parenting Mistakes During and After your Divorce, please enter your first name and email address above.

In service and support of your and your children’s well-being ~



 Cat J. Zavis is an Attorney, Mediator, Child Advocate, Coach for Parents co-parenting their children after divorce and Author of the upcoming book,Parenting with Your Ex: Another F***ing Growth Opportunity.” As a divorced mother of 2, she deeply understands the challenges, trauma and opportunities divorce provides. She has been practicing Nonviolent Communication, Mediation and Collaborative Law for 7 years. She conducts workshops and trainings in Nonviolent Communication for parents, lawyers, teachers, students, spiritual centers and professionals. In 2009, she was awarded a Peace Builder Award for her business. Her combination of personal experience and professional expertise give Cat a unique perspective and ability to help co parents learn to communicate effectively and powerfully to transform their relationships and interactions with their former after divorce so they and their children can thrive.

Cat can be reached at clientcare@parentingwithyourex.com